I came across a post with advice about dating a developer from Matt Mullinweg’s blog. Granted it’s very particular to her situation, but in general it’s a good read.

For the record, I only have a few geek shirts and usually just wear them around the house or when I’m working-out. I have yet to have someone compliment me on my FreeBSD shirt, but the Chicks Dig UNIX shirt always draws a lot of mixed comments.